Homeschooling
My friend Elizabeth, who lives in Iowa, asked why I’m choosing homeschooling, she didn’t know that I was planning on doing this, and it’s mostly because I talk to people about it, but I guess I haven’t blogged about it a lot.
Some reason’s why I’m wanting to home school in no particular order:
- We live in a highly populated Spanish speaking area. I had a friend who taught kindergarten at a school close to us, though not the one Lilah would attend, and in a class she had in 2006 there were about 4 English speaking students, the rest she had to teach English. I know this would be a large disadvantage to Lilah, who at the age of 3 knew more than some of her kindergarteners. Plus the Spanish speaking children could not communicate with the English speaking students, so the English speakers had a harder time making friends.
- No Child Left Behind = Teach to test
- Everything, even the potty breaks, are planned to the minute for the teacher. ( I’d put a link to a kindergarten teacher here in Nevada talking about the schedule, but it’s a private blog.)
- There’s no creativity for the teacher and the students.
- Being able to teach Lilah at the level she is.
- 6 hours of school and another 2 hours of homework.
- Children will learn a subject once they’re interested. If they’re not interested, they’re not going to learn without a person forcing them.
- Kids are weird if their parents are weird. So my girls have no hope anyways… No, the excuse of socialization is weak to me.
- Parents are losing more and more power to choose what is taught to their children. Even if you’re actively involved it’s not always enough.
- Jon has talked me into it. I figure I can indoctrinate them while he’s at work. ๐
- Enjoying time and discussion with my girls.
- The girls deciding what they want to learn, in some ways, and me being able to develop their sense of curiosity.
- I’ve never, ever, wanted to be a teacher, but it is fun to see them learn something new.
- The public school system, at least to my belief, doesn’t develop a desire to learn.
- The public school system was implemented to teach the poor and the government just continued to go with it.
- It would be nice to have some time to myself during the day, but I think I can teach the girls what they need to know and get with other homeschooling groups, to help my children learn in a smaller, more adaptive setting, to their needs.
Some people think we’re totally weird for wanting to home school, even within the family, and are highly opposed to it because home schooled kids are “weird”, but others are very supportive and say how the home schooled children they know are more mature and less indoctrinated about sex, drugs, and violence.
While we’re not homeschooling because we don’t want them exposed to the “horrible world”, we are planning on homeschooling because we believe we can provide a better education for our children than the public school system.
Once our girls are older they can choose to go to public school, but we’re not going to force them to stay out or go in, I just hope we’re in a better school district by then.
March 6th, 2008 at 11:49 am
I’ve been warming up more and more to the idea of homeschooling. I respect parents who do it and do it well. I think you’ll be one of those. ๐ I’m far too lazy and inconsistent to homeschool though.
March 6th, 2008 at 1:35 pm
There are many advantages to homeschooling. It’s not as much of a stigma up here in Utah, lots of kids are homeschooled here. I think that someone like you would be awesome at it. More power to ya!
March 6th, 2008 at 8:27 pm
I’m not sure if I’ll be awesome at it, I think Jon would be a much better teacher than I, but mostly because he has more patience.
I am getting more excited as I look at ways to teach Lilah and I think she’s getting use to the idea that Mommy will be teaching her. (She talks about going to school, like her cousins, but we tell her she gets to stay home and have fun with Mommy.)
March 7th, 2008 at 10:48 am
The great thing about homeschooling is that Jon can teach them too. Life becomes the classroom. ๐
March 7th, 2008 at 2:34 pm
I think homeschooling would be great. My wife and I have talked about it and would like to do it if we could. Being poor and stuff we are kinda stuck with the public edumacation system. But, I find a chance to insert a lesson or two to each of the kids now and then.
My only complaint was a bad experience with a District Leader on my mission. He was home schooled in Utah and lacked some social tact and empathy. I went on splits with him and he had this holier (and more learned) than thou attitude with me whenever we were together. He’d take anything I said and twisted it around and the whole time together was really pissing me off. I was not prepared for him. But that’s enough of the negative, and the stuck up ones are not as common. And public schooled ones probably will learn more defiancy.
But, I’ve seen how home schooling in the right setting can increase a childs capacities and better them. And I’m sure Jon is more than willing to help you out in teaching anything that would benefit the girls.
Anyways, back to work.