Nighttime call
Friday, September 19th, 2008Jon and I were enjoying a nice quiet night at home. We had popped the Netflix movie in, Bridge to Terabithia, and we were watching the story unfold.
Then the phone rings.
It’s 9:54 pm.
Who’s calling us at 9:54? I wonder if it’s your parents?
It’s not a number I recognized and I fully expected to hear, “Sorry I have the wrong number.” after I picked up the phone.
Instead I heard “Hello, Sis. Blake this is Bro. Moe*. We have chapel cleaning duty tomorrow and I’m going through the names for it. Can you be there at 9?”
“Uh, I’m not able to make that.”
“You have something going on aroundรย 9 am tomorrow?”
“Yes, I do. I won’t be able to make it.”
“Alright I’ll put your name down for the next time.”
I wish I could convey my confusion and the exact conversation. I felt like I should know that I was assigned to clean the chapel, or even that I had volunteered, but I had no idea that it was our turn this month and no idea I was up to clean the chapel this Saturday.
In our old ward it went by auxiliaries and people volunteered. Of course it usually ended up being the presidency members from each auxiliary, and not many families or other members volunteered. They also liked to clean at ungodly hours of 7:30 am. ๐
But you knew ahead of time that you had volunteered to clean the chapel.
Now I have no qualms with being assigned to clean the chapel, in fact it might be a better way to get members to come and clean the chapel.รย Iรย also find 9 am to be a much more agreeable time, especially if I wanted to bring my children to help. What I have qualms with is not knowing I’m assigned to clean the chapel until the night before, and especially not knowing until 9:54 pm the night before.
I felt like he was trying to sneak up on me. ‘You’re assigned and nobody has morning engagements on Saturdays, so you must be available and can’t say no.’
I do have a morning engagement, it’s at 10 o’clock, but I like to take my shower after I clean the chapel and I wouldn’t have time to do that before my blood donor appointment. I also want to save my energy and not exert myself right before I give blood because I already have a difficult time donating.รย Now I could cancel, but I really don’t want to.รย Especially when you call me at 9:54 the night before. It just brings out my annoyed side, not my give service side.
Would you be as annoyed by this too?
*Names have been changed to protect the identity of a brethren I haven’t met yet.